This little word came to me in December; God whispered: \u201cthis one, this word, surrender, we have work to do here, daughter.\u201d<\/p>\n
Since then He has whispered something about it nearly every day in many different ways. {He\u2019s very creative and He knows how to get my attention}<\/span><\/p>\n Surrender- it may be the one thing I\u00a0need<\/strong>\u00a0to tattoo on the back of my hand where I can see it every day.<\/span><\/p>\n Surrender don’t come natural to me<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n I’d rather fight You for something I don’t really want<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n Than to take what You give that I need<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n -Rich Mullins<\/span><\/p>\n Because, you see, I have to. Surrender. Every day.<\/span><\/p>\n If you know me even a little bit, you know that I have an elevated confidence level when it comes to my profession. Not when it comes to self {still working on it}.<\/span><\/p>\n My self-confidence was so low as a child and as a teen and as a new mom, I\u2019m not sure I had\u00a0any<\/em>\u00a0back then. Heck, I barely knew who I was.<\/span><\/p>\n Then came nursing school and my instructors taught me that women living in the era we were living in had the right, nay, the responsibility to be bold, assertive and confident if we were ever going to get anywhere in that socio-medical minefield that was female nurses caring for male doctor\u2019s patients.<\/span><\/p>\n The times they were a changin\u2019.\u00a0 Women\u2019s lib and feminism made the headlines. Every day. Our attitudes about ourselves changed with each new item in the news.<\/span><\/p>\n After all, I was entitled. I was woman\u2026. Thank you, Helen Reddy, for that one\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n We skipped completely over \u201cdo unto others\u201d during the late 70s to the rhetoric that said \u2013 you have rights, you are whatever you want to be, you can do whatever you want to do and no one can take your rights away.<\/span><\/p>\n We bought into the mantra that said: \u201cI want what I want and I should have whatever I want, whenever I want it, and my wants come before everything and everyone else.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n So much for families, friends, faith\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n My wants came first and people were in my life to ensure that I got what I wanted or they needed to get out of the way because they were hindering me. My wants were paramount.<\/span><\/p>\n That was the loudest message I received in nursing school. Everything we were taught was wrapped up in those newspaper articles and tied with the bra straps from the burned bras.<\/span><\/p>\n It almost destroyed my family without me even realizing it. Submission was a dirty word in my newly grown up world. It was all about me.<\/span><\/p>\n Then God got my attention and put my head back on straight. It wasn\u2019t a bolt of lightning or anything that was sudden and public. Just some circumstances at church, a nugget of a verse here and there, comments by friends and then, umm, there was that whole month my husband and I did not say one word to each other; and the kids, oh, yeah, the kids, who were all of 2 and 3 then- I did have to think about the kids didn\u2019t I?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 {insert sarcasm}<\/span><\/p>\n There were some tense conversations when we did talk and I woke up one day from the \u201cdreams\u201d that had been placed in my head; the tape set on repeat that said: \u201cAll that matters is what you want \u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n It was, of course, the enemy, whispering to me as my instructors treated me as if I were the darling of the class many days and encouraged me to strike out on my own. I could do anything, be anything according to them.<\/span><\/p>\n Oh, how that stroked my infinitely small quantity of self-worth.\u00a0 Perhaps you know the feeling?<\/span><\/p>\n When your ego is pumped by people with no vested interest in you, it can be very flattering.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s one thing when the people who love you compliment and build you up- that\u2019s their job after all, right? They\u2019re saying it because they love you, right? But when someone in authority over you chooses to stoop low and boost your confidence it must be real, mustn\u2019t it?<\/span><\/p>\n Go ahead and laugh.<\/span><\/p>\n I was that na\u00efve that I didn\u2019t see the truth at first.<\/span><\/p>\n Oh, he\u2019s an expert at that.<\/span><\/p>\n Reality check:\u00a0if it seems too good to be true, it probably is.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n By the Grace of God, I got back on track. Yes, I was living through that period of time when women\u2019s lib was front page news every day, and I was still in nursing school, but the reality of the fact that I was a wife and mother first and my responsibilities were to them had pulled me back from the brink of destruction of a family- mine.<\/span><\/p>\n He helped me realize:<\/span><\/p>\n First: I am His child<\/span><\/p>\n Second: I have an earthly family that came way before the world\u2019s siren call<\/span><\/p>\n Third: I am responsible and accountable to Him for the way I behave, treat, and teach that family<\/span><\/p>\n Fourth: His purpose for me uses the brains He\u2019s given me and the knowledge I learned to help others, not further my own selfish agenda.<\/span><\/p>\n Fifth: I am His child. He will not let me fall.<\/span><\/p>\n Stumble, maybe. Learn from it, definitely.<\/span><\/p>\n Surrender. Yes.<\/span><\/p>\n Those \u201cdreams\u201d that weren\u2019t part of my calling.<\/span><\/p>\n Trust in the\u00a0Lord<\/span>\u00a0with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.\u00a0\u00a0Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the\u00a0Lord<\/span>\u00a0and shun evil.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong>Proverbs 3:5-7 NIV<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" This little word came to me in December; God whispered: \u201cthis one, this word, surrender, we have work to do here, daughter.\u201d Since then He has whispered something about it nearly every day in many different ways. {He\u2019s very creative and He knows how to get my attention} Surrender- it may be the one thing … Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[55,54,7,27],"class_list":["post-70","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","tag-family","tag-responsibility","tag-surrender","tag-trust"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordsfromthehomefront.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordsfromthehomefront.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordsfromthehomefront.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordsfromthehomefront.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordsfromthehomefront.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=70"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/wordsfromthehomefront.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":73,"href":"https:\/\/wordsfromthehomefront.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70\/revisions\/73"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/wordsfromthehomefront.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=70"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordsfromthehomefront.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=70"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/wordsfromthehomefront.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=70"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}